For when things change at home
Practical guidance for the moments as parents age — ahead of when it matters.
Signs to watch for
How to tell when a parent living alone needs more support. What to look for, and what should prompt a conversation.
Falls
1 in 3 over-65s injures themselves in a fall each year. Most falls happen at home, and most are preventable.
Home safety
Room-by-room checklist: lighting, rails, mats, bathroom, kitchen, stairs.
Dementia
Early signs, getting a diagnosis, what comes next, NZ support pathways.
Driving
When driving needs to stop, having the conversation, NZTA medical assessment.
Hearing and vision
Often missed, often making everything else harder. NZ-funded options.
Mental health
Depression and anxiety in older people, what to look for, how to help.
Loneliness
A serious health risk. What helps. NZ-specific connection options.
Elder abuse
Recognising it, including financial abuse, and what to do. NZ reporting paths.
Health checks
What checks to ask the GP about. NZ-funded screening and assessments.
Cultural considerations
Tikanga Māori, Pacific protocols, and other cultural perspectives on care at home.
Financial and legal
Wills, enduring powers of attorney, welfare guardianship — before they are urgent.
Respite care
When carers need a break. How to access respite in NZ.
Government support
The Needs Assessment gateway: funded home help, personal care, equipment, Carer Support. No asset test for home-based support.
Veterans’ entitlements
If your parent served in the NZ Defence Force, Veterans’ Affairs runs a parallel set of supports families often miss.
Compare monitoring options
Medical alarms, passive sensors, wearables — what works for whom in NZ.
Choosing a rest home
When the time comes. What to look for, NZ aged-care funding, the process.
Retirement villages
How NZ retirement villages work, occupation rights, what to ask before signing.
Costs of care
NZ aged-care costs, residential care subsidy, asset testing, real numbers.
End-of-life choices at home
Advance directives, NZ EOLCA, dying at home, hospice support.